<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Family Matter: The Big Read ]]></title><description><![CDATA[The Big Read is Family Matter's monthly newsletter featuring one longform article in each issue. These anchor pieces offer perspective and analysis on themes that matter to families in business. Sometimes we'll include bite-size information and curated companion content too! ]]></description><link>https://familymatter.i3resources.com/s/family-matter</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!3HpR!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F9a2219f3-67ce-48ae-bdc2-b6fbb0c71577_625x625.png</url><title>Family Matter: The Big Read </title><link>https://familymatter.i3resources.com/s/family-matter</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Sun, 24 May 2026 02:25:07 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://familymatter.i3resources.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Kevin Heaton]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[kevinheaton@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[kevinheaton@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Kevin Heaton]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Kevin Heaton]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[kevinheaton@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[kevinheaton@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Kevin Heaton]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[A changing digital landscape is paving the way for owners to own again.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Sometimes you have to look back and understand how you arrived at a place before you can feel confident about where you&#8217;re heading.]]></description><link>https://familymatter.i3resources.com/p/a-changing-digital-landscape-is-paving</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://familymatter.i3resources.com/p/a-changing-digital-landscape-is-paving</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Amy Hatfield]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2026 22:32:21 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!vcIY!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F093aa856-4404-4993-a713-24f3ff196905_1200x857.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes you have to look back and understand how you arrived at a place before you can feel confident about where you&#8217;re heading. This month&#8217;s featured article is our effort to do that. For <a href="https://www.i3resources.com/">us</a>, this deep dive into the idea of digital sovereignty started with a few questions. How did we all become so dependent on subscription-based software that we don&#8217;t even actually own? And when did it become OK to put our company&#8217;s private financial records and other important information on digital platforms we&#8217;re just renting? It seems a little weird. And the increasing expense of these rentals is worse than weird.  <br> <br>The latest research (details and sources cited in the article) says businesses now spend an average of nearly $5,000 per employee per year on software subscriptions. So for a 100-employee, middle-market company, that translates to nearly half a million dollars annually, most often drawn from core operating capital.  <br> <br>Is there a better way? We believe there is.</p><h1>Digital Sovereignty: What Took Us So Long?</h1><p><em>Why many middle-market family enterprises don&#8217;t own their own information, and how a changing digital landscape will pave the way for owners to own again.</em></p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://familymatter.i3resources.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Thanks for reading Family Matter! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!vcIY!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F093aa856-4404-4993-a713-24f3ff196905_1200x857.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" 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And when that happens, sometimes owners fail to own. Instead, owners lose. In fact, for the better part of this century, we&#8217;ve failed to hang onto our own information. This information migration started in the early 2000s, accelerating from about 2010 to 2015. We lost ownership of information, a foundational piece of any family enterprise.</p><p>Or &#8212; one might argue &#8212; we gave it away.</p><p>But it&#8217;s OK because you already know what many of us watched happen. In that era, information shed its old skin and stepped into something different. It wasn&#8217;t the same, use it and manipulate it effectively and efficiently, it became part of an intangible hyperreality like other abstract things: email, online transaction, a Facebook page.</p><p>In some ways, information was unrecognizable in its new form, so it wasn&#8217;t classified as a thing to own in the same way it once was. It&#8217;s sort of like when your little one is just beginning to eat real food and falls madly in love with mashed potatoes, only to emphatically reject the same food &#8212; potatoes &#8212; in the form of a hashbrown.</p><p>To the toddler&#8217;s untrained eye, hashbrowns look so unlike the mashed version of potatoes; they aren&#8217;t potatoes at all. And to the untrained analog eyes accustomed to  information captured on printed documents or legal pads, digital information housed on subscription-based online platforms wasn&#8217;t information at all.</p><h3>When Information Changed Its Skin</h3><p>There was, however, a transition period from print to digital, when owners relied on disks with the software they&#8217;d purchase, own and install on computer hard drives, or in some cases, internal servers they also owned, otherwise known as the Software as a Product (SaaP) era, which dominated the 1980s and 1990s.</p><p>But with the emergence of Software as a Service (SaaS), digital information became as abstract as the stars in the heavens: Both gave off light; both were out of reach. One, the stars, are trillions of miles away. The other, our information, was backlit and untouchable, housed on servers on someone else&#8217;s infrastructure. SaaS improved reliability and scalability, but it also separated access from custody. Information was still produced by the owner, but it was no longer physically or operationally under the owner&#8217;s direct control.</p><p>The emergence of AI is going to change all of that. In many ways, it already has. In fact, the dawn of AI is moving so rapidly into our everyday lives that it&#8217;s hard to say when to classify its effects as past tense or present tense. We&#8217;re in the midst of a real-time implosion of change that&#8217;s conflating the &#8220;somewhere in the near future,&#8221; with the &#8220;right now.&#8221;</p><p>All of AI&#8217;s sweeping side effects are unknown and likely will be until humanity has the benefit of hindsight. But for now, we believe we&#8217;re entering the era of digital sovereignty. In 2026, our company &#8212; <a href="https://www.i3resources.com/">i3 Global Enterprises</a> &#8212; is wrangling up what&#8217;s been roaming free. And we&#8217;re doing it for a whole host of reasons we&#8217;re about to unpack and examine.<br></p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.i3resources.com/posts/digital-sovereignty-what-took-us-so-long&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Keep Reading&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://www.i3resources.com/posts/digital-sovereignty-what-took-us-so-long"><span>Keep Reading</span></a></p><p></p><p></p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2" target="_blank" href="http://i3resources.com" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Lmk-!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Lmk-!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Lmk-!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Lmk-!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Lmk-!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png" width="86" height="86" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:625,&quot;width&quot;:625,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:86,&quot;bytes&quot;:45429,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image/png&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;http://i3resources.com&quot;,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:true,&quot;topImage&quot;:false,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:&quot;https://familymatter.i3resources.com/i/193515912?img=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png&quot;,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="" title="" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Lmk-!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Lmk-!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Lmk-!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Lmk-!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png 1456w" sizes="100vw" loading="lazy"></picture><div></div></div></a></figure></div><p style="text-align: center;"><em>The Big Read by <a href="https://familymatter.i3resources.com/about">Family Matter</a></em></p><div><hr></div><p><strong>About </strong><em><strong>Family Matter:</strong></em><strong> </strong><em>&#8221;Family Matter&#8220; is a content series by Kevin Heaton, founder and principal of i3 Global Enterprises, a private asset management and family CFO office. Newsletters and emails like &#8220;The Big Read&#8221; feature the latest content from Kevin and select posts from <a href="https://www.i3resources.com/articles">i3resources.com</a>, our company&#8217;s website.</em></p><p><em><strong>About i3:</strong> i3 helps families in business navigate the unique financial challenges and interpersonal conflicts that threaten long-term wealth preservation and growth. Our families reach positive outcomes through nuanced i3 processes and operational systems that align four core pillars: succession planning and family governance, wealth analysis and reporting, financial infrastructure and forecasting and private asset management (if needed). By creating durable systems within a financial ecosystem that&#8217;s tailored to each family&#8217;s needs, i3 Global helps families in business foster financial and relational harmony and grow wealth over generations. To learn more about i3 Global Enterprises, visit <a href="http://i3resources.com">i3resources.com</a>. Or contact us <a href="https://www.i3resources.com/contact">here</a>. </em></p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://familymatter.i3resources.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Thanks for reading Family Matter! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support our work.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Nobody Wants to Fall off the Paddleboard, but Fall We Must ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Why a beginner&#8217;s behavior on a paddleboard is a useful way to think about workplace tepidness, risk aversion and a failure to pursue candor in family enterprises.]]></description><link>https://familymatter.i3resources.com/p/nobody-wants-to-fall-off-the-paddleboard</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://familymatter.i3resources.com/p/nobody-wants-to-fall-off-the-paddleboard</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Amy Hatfield]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2026 20:35:25 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!SfY-!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc4838095-a39a-4312-86ba-1bc6969f2386_1750x1250.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!SfY-!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc4838095-a39a-4312-86ba-1bc6969f2386_1750x1250.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!SfY-!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc4838095-a39a-4312-86ba-1bc6969f2386_1750x1250.png 424w, 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The beginner most often looks like he&#8217;s trying <em>not</em> to do something rather than trying to actually do something &#8212; crouched down, knees bent, unsteady and unsure. It&#8217;s a strain. Just fall in already.</p><p>Except they don&#8217;t. The beginner paddles carefully, with noodle arms that don&#8217;t slice the water. So the paddleboarder avoids the fall. But what good is that? Success, in this case, is defined by staying on the board, dry and useless, making an unproductive turn at covering very little distance.</p><p>This assessment is harsh, perhaps, but it&#8217;s meant to celebrate the opposite approach: Fall in, get wet, put it all out there, resolute and self-assured.</p><p>You might recognize a version of the paddleboarder&#8217;s careful tepidness in the workplace. Restraint in how we communicate is often misunderstood as professionalism or deference. Anyone familiar with blue-collar work and workplace culture a generation or two ago has seen the opposite of professional restraint: a good cussing, wrenches thrown, checks docked and people fired and rehired on a regular basis. This approach was chaotic and unproductive, but in many workplace environments today, we seem to have overcorrected.</p><p>A lack of candor can lead to unproductive conversations and ill-informed decision making. Too often, our office demeanor is one of two things: 1) careful and tepid; or 2) abrasive and cynical.</p><p>There is, in fact, another way. It&#8217;s the art of packaging the sharp edges of candor in the bubble wrap of respect.</p><h3>Hedging Leads to Uninformed Decision-Making</h3><p>It&#8217;s worth slowing down here and being precise about what&#8217;s actually happening. These &#8220;careful&#8221; behaviors are not random, and they aren&#8217;t the result of individual incompetence or lack of courage. </p><p></p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.i3resources.com/posts/nobody-wants-to-fall-off-the-paddleboard-but-fall-we-must&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Keep Reading&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://www.i3resources.com/posts/nobody-wants-to-fall-off-the-paddleboard-but-fall-we-must"><span>Keep Reading</span></a></p><p></p><div><hr></div><h2>What&#8217;s Next</h2><h4><strong><a href="https://www.i3resources.com/about#approach">i3 Family Ecosystem: Independent Pieces Become a Thriving Collective</a></strong></h4><p>We&#8217;ve recently updated our <a href="https://www.i3resources.com/">i3 website</a> and, in doing so, we&#8217;ve shared some thoughts on our family ecosystem, and how it works to mitigate the challenges families in business face. We like the word &#8220;ecosystem&#8221; because it's designed to do the one thing families in business need above all else: Take independent entities and informational resources and harmonize each into a single, thriving collective. We&#8217;ve also provided a simple sketch to illustrate how it all comes together.  <a href="https://www.i3resources.com/about#approach">Read It &#8594; </a></p><h4><a href="https://familymatter.i3resources.com/p/where-have-all-the-assets-gone">Where Have All the Assets Gone? </a></h4><p>After working with families in business for decades, we&#8217;ve learned that many family enterprises accumulate &#8220;<a href="https://familymatter.i3resources.com/p/where-have-all-the-assets-gone">filing cabinet assets</a>.&#8221; And, often, these assets are now worth a lot of money. Much of what we do as a firm is built around this first step: Uncovering the history and operating details of an enterprise by collecting, organizing, presenting and analyzing every document and item in that proverbial filing cabinet. It&#8217;s a family&#8217;s library of information; it&#8217;s the piece that makes our ecosystem go. <a href="https://familymatter.i3resources.com/p/where-have-all-the-assets-gone">Read It &#8594; </a></p><h4><a href="https://www.i3resources.com/posts/when-your-estate-documents-cant-answer-your-questions">When Estate Docs Can&#8217;t Answer Your Questions</a></h4><p>In this post, we explore the gap between when estate documents are drafted and when litigation sometimes ensues. Who exists in the middle, and who does the work to prevent litigation from happening at all? We know the paperwork often leaves questions unanswered, but we encourage families to avoid leaving questions unasked. There are answers to be had. But first, what&#8217;s the difference between mechanical questions and emotional questions, and does it matter?  <a href="https://www.i3resources.com/posts/when-your-estate-documents-cant-answer-your-questions">Read It &#8594;  </a></p><p></p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2" target="_blank" href="http://i3resources.com" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Lmk-!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Lmk-!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Lmk-!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Lmk-!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Lmk-!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png" width="86" height="86" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:625,&quot;width&quot;:625,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:86,&quot;bytes&quot;:45429,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image/png&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;http://i3resources.com&quot;,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:true,&quot;topImage&quot;:false,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:&quot;https://familymatter.i3resources.com/i/193515912?img=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png&quot;,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Lmk-!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Lmk-!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Lmk-!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Lmk-!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f6da98d-49bb-4c0b-886b-f7ad6cbb395d_625x625.png 1456w" sizes="100vw" loading="lazy"></picture><div></div></div></a></figure></div><p style="text-align: center;"><em>The Big Read by <a href="https://familymatter.i3resources.com/about">Family Matter</a></em></p><p><br></p><div><hr></div><p><strong>About </strong><em><strong>Family Matter</strong></em><strong> and i3</strong></p><p><em>&#8221;Family Matter&#8220; is a content series by Kevin Heaton, founder and principal of i3 Global Enterprises, a private asset management and family CFO office. Newsletters and emails like &#8220;The Big Read&#8221; feature the latest content from Kevin and select posts from <a href="https://www.i3resources.com/articles">i3resources.com</a>, our company&#8217;s website.</em></p><p><em>i3 helps families in business navigate the unique financial challenges and interpersonal conflicts that threaten long-term wealth preservation and growth. Our families reach positive outcomes through nuanced i3 processes and operational systems that align four core pillars: succession planning and family governance, wealth analysis and reporting, financial infrastructure and forecasting and private asset management (if needed). By creating durable systems within a financial ecosystem that&#8217;s tailored to each family&#8217;s needs, i3 Global helps families in business foster financial and relational harmony and grow wealth over generations. To learn more about i3 Global Enterprises, visit <a href="http://i3resources.com">i3resources.com</a>. Or contact us <a href="https://www.i3resources.com/contact">here</a>. </em></p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>